Enjoy.

Last night, I attended a stimulating salon of writers, producers, directors, musicians and other creative beings for which "A Call to Character: Living an Ethical Life" was the topic. During the lively discourse, my decidedly imperfect life flashed before my eyes, and I thought, "Omigod, I don't belong here."

But, as the collective conversation continued, I relaxed as each of our human imperfections revealed themselves in (some, not so) subtle ways. The list of shining traits that define character cannot be accessed by everyone in every moment of every day. We all struggle to find and manifest core values: respect, honesty, compassion, responsibility, fairness, cooperation, perseversence, tolerance, etc...as much with ourselves (more of a challenge?) as with others. In fact, the way we treat ourselves subconsciously instructs others in their treatment of us -- much more succinctly than the way we treat others. Self-respect -- or lack thereof -- sets a vibrant, indelible example. But if we make an effort to be conscious -- to stay awake for our thoughts and feelings, especially before we act on them -- the rewards will gratify in immeasurable ways.

Any sincere effort to improve our character is bound to bring a welcome, if not permanent, peace into our hearts.

And maybe a little joy.